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Kaustav Ghosh

Everyone searches for, but who is that perfect partner. Yes, partner here means the person you spend with for the rest of your life. Everyone searches for that perfection in the partner, in that partner they choose. But the search of many person goes on and on. It never stopped as some fault or imperfection ensures that search should goes on. This is my first post on lifestyle category, lets see how deep i can dive in this topic.

But my friend the truth is neither this world nor any person includes you is a perfect one. In fact there is a proverb that is beauty beholds in the eyes of a beholder. The whole world, your surroundings can be look beautiful and perfect if you have that eyes to look beyond. Who says black means toxic, unlucky, bad, asuras, unholy? If it is that then god may not have filled this color in the people’s head with hair, eye ball. As I say always it 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟, 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐫, 𝐟𝐨𝐨𝐝, 𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐞𝐭𝐜. God made us and we made division. We have divided into so many groups which helped us to hate easily and love rarely.

Let’s go back to the perfection, what we searches? Why there is so many purmutation and combination; are we doing a business deal. Those perfect yet imperfect love stories which can be seen in the reel had made insecure not only the singles, but also those who are married or going to be married soon. This reels are setting goals; I am not at its good or bad but I want to draw your kind attention to two points-one is unrealistic expectation, losing its originality. You and your partner is unique, so why your life should be someother’s copied version. Is not it better to have some originality, is not better to live your own life but not others. Are you sure you have explored your life enough.

When you ignore your partner’s imperfection, you are accepting the truth that is even you are not perfect. It is about two good hearts coming together and making an unbreakable promise to live together even if there are so many odds, perils, barrier. It is not the perfection but the power of compromise, accepting each others good and bad, holding each other’s hand in both success and failure. When two people in this world of mis-understanding, dating apps, easy break up and divorce choose to understand well each other. When two people come together not for partying and leaving each other soon but they come together to face the reality, the odds and still they choose to fight with a smile on their faces. Perfection comes from the realisation from the both ends that you two complete and compliment each other, you are in a relationship where none is superior nor is inferior over each other.

Yes, neither you nor your partner is perfect. But both of you need to work out to make it perfect-not only in pre wedding or wedding shoot, in facebook or instagram reels,but for the rest of your life. This is that perfection you are searching for, this is that perfection you should search for and make it happen.